Etiquette
A few things to note!
Mutual respect, kindness, and discretion are my kind of charm. I’m sweet, genuine, and caring, but that shouldn’t be mistaken for naivety. My boundaries are clear and firm—if you’re in doubt, always ask. If a line is crossed or I’m made to feel unsafe, I won’t hesitate to remove my presence.
How to handle donation upon meeting?
To set the mood for a perfect beginning, Make sure my gift is ready in an unsealed envelope and offer it to me within the first few moments of our meeting—think of it as your first chance to impress me. If we’re meeting in public, get creative: tuck it into a book, a gift bag, or something just as charming, and pass it to me with that irresistible mix of confidence and intrigue.
It’s a scary world, how do you stay safe?
For my safety and peace of mind, screening is absolutely essential for all new acquaintances. I value quality over quantity, and I don’t meet with anyone who chooses to remain anonymous. If this isn’t for you, I completely understand, but please consider this before reaching out. You’ll be kindly asked to provide your genuine details for a quick and simple verification process. Rest assured, your privacy is my priority, and all information is handled with the utmost care and discretion.
Would you tour my city?
I absolutely adore touring and uncovering the secrets each new city has to offer. If you want me to visit, make sure to book early enough, because when I’m on tour, I like to make every moment count. A 70% deposit is required, as last-minute cancellations while I’m on the move are a hassle I’d rather avoid. Discretion and safety are absolutely essential for me, especially when I’m exploring unfamiliar places. The more reassurance and care you provide, the more comfortable and eager I’ll be to join you. A little attention goes a long way in making me feel right at home and setting the stage for an unforgettable experience. Let’s make these travels as thrilling as our time together!
Oh no! I can’t make it, what should I do?
Life can be unpredictable and out of control. If you need to cancel our date, please provide as much notice as possible so we can make alternate arrangements. For cancellations made more than 3 days in advance, your deposit will be applied to our rescheduled date. However, for cancellations with less than 3 days notice, the deposit is forfeited, and the next date must be paid in full upfront. Let’s keep things smooth and easy, so our time together remains as special as it should be.
Fly me to you or with you!
I’m currently based in Manhattan but always ready to join you or escape with you. For fly-me-to-you dates, there’s a 6-hour minimum with a 40% deposit plus travel expenses. Flights under 2 hours require an additional $500, while those over 2 hours require an additional $1,000. These extra charges reflect the time, effort, and logistics required for longer travel. All travel and accommodation costs—including flights, hotels, and taxis—must be paid in full in advance, along with the deposit. The remaining balance will be settled when we meet, ensuring our time together is unforgettable.
I’m not too far but a little effort away.
For train-me-to-you or drive to you outside manhattan dates, there’s a 3-hour minimum with a 50% deposit plus travel expenses. Train journeys over 30 minutes require an additional $300, and those over 1 hour require an additional $500. Again, these fees are to cover the time and effort it takes to travel to you. All travel and accommodation costs—including flights, hotels, and taxis—must be paid in full in advance, along with the deposit. The remaining balance will be settled when we meet, ensuring our time together is unforgettable.